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Tired Of Feeling Trapped In Your Life? These Five Strategies Will Set You Free
Tired Of Feeling Trapped In Your Life? These Five Strategies Will Set You Free Feeling trapped isn’t fun. Feeling like you can’t bust out of a boring or unfulfilling job, or out of a dead relationship, or out circumstances—financial, familial, existential—that are...
Changing Your Life Path Is Tough: Four Reasons Why We Stay Stuck
You’ve tried everything to change your life path, and nothing works. Four reasons why we stay stuck.The life path you are on isn’t the one you want to be walking down. It’s boring, unfulfilling, high-stress, loveless, sexless, friendless—it’s too much of one thing and...
How To Level Up Your Life And Stop Playing Small
How To Level Up Your Life And Stop Playing SmallTo level up your life means to quit playing small and to start playing big. What is playing small? It’s not asking for a raise; it’s putting up with a job you don’t like, it’s suffering a dead relationship, it’s not...
Why Choosing a Life Purpose is Important If You Want To Be Truly Happy
Why Choosing a Life Purpose is Important If You Want To Be Truly HappyBeing able to choose your life’s purpose is a luxury. Throughout human history, until very recently, only a tiny handful of people had the opportunity to choose want they wanted to do with their...
How Your Body Tells You It’s Time To Change Something Important In Your Life
How Your Body Tells You It's Time To Change Something Important In Your LifeHow do you know when it’s time to change something important in your life? You might think this an inane question. Like how do we know when our arm is broken? When it doesn’t work—and it...
Transformation: The Short Story
Transformation: The Short StoryThis is a story about transformation. About changing your experience of the world. It can happen in a flash: all you need to do is change the lens you are looking through. Let’s call her Shanice. She wanted to be a motivational...
Leaders Develop Their People
When an employee is failing to perform–it’s not because they have reached their “level of incompetence”, it’s because they are on the cusp of a breakthrough. Good leaders know how to generate breakthroughs in their staff.
What Stops You From Living Big? Four Reasons We Live Small Lives
What Stops You From Living Big?Four Reasons We Live Small LivesYou want to do great things with your life—you want to live big. To rocket to distant planets, write epics, end hunger, but, instead, you’re stuck at home doing the dishes or cutting the grass. You want...
Choosing Who You Are
Choosing Who You AreThere are many different coaching methodologies. I practice Ontological Coaching. So what is it? Say you hike into the woods for a picnic with a really exciting date or with your husband or wife on an important anniversary. On a stream bank, you...